Biggest psychological experience of my life

1. You can change your thoughts, feelings, you can stop hating someone, you can stop being jelous. Its all a matter of doing it and changing the habit.

Once u do it u can do it more often and more easily with passage of time.

You can decide to entertain or not to entertain a thought, will take years of hard work but will produce ten times many years of enlightened wise life. 

Lessons of Life

1. No Girl comes to you for respect of another good reason, they come for you essentially for trade. And in trade only virtuous and workoholics win.

2. Most people who waste time on social media are those who wont do anything otherwise. They have to kill time, they choose twitter, facebook or one of the others to debate and enjoy. 

Superstiton

Superstition is not just about religion and things like that

there are many superstition, we live in superstitious world since the time we get to 5-6 we are fed superstition.

Like our belief is true and others is false, big superstition, we cant see others brain.

similarly, like I cant get better

like the way we identify ourselves with our feelings trust it, is big superstition.

See the war, both sides are always convinced about evilness of other side.

trusting ones own feeling is biggest superstition.

We trust so much that something we are doing is the right way, later on we discover that no it was illusion, thousands of cases in every life. What is true then? Am I true now or was then? But if i feel i am true now, stil in future it may be dis-constructed. May be we die in darkness.

feelings and intuition comes from reptilian brain. we have a reptile inside and a human.

Human calculates complex integrals and reptilian brain says no, its very difficult u cant solve it.

so far targetting religious supersition has been very easy and hobby of many. But other forms of superstition need much more research.

But rationality , understanding how our thoughts, feelings work, etc, and how to think rationally is the most important thing that should be taught in high school. Sadly It is not being taught. Mark my words, towards end of the century many intelligent schools will adopt it. Many countries.

We cannot run away from our brain, it goes with us wherever we go. With it goes the reptile inside, who has enslaved our human brain through power of feelings, fear of death and ecstasy of life, happiness, addiction. It cant distinguish things except that weather it is fearful or enjoyment. Once our human brain starts identifying it as fear, reptile says we are fucked run away, stop all rationality. So instead of tackling fear, or checking weather it is true or false we run away. Thats how people in Indian villages believe in ghost till death. Thats how we believe in necessity for revenge, jealousy etc.
We can show the reptile, its true place. By choosing to ignore it. We have control over it. In the time just as baby stops crying if crying doesnot fetch it prize, in same way reptile inside us stops. But weather reptile stops or not, we need to say that reptile cant decide right or wrong, let us not give our pet the power to decide, take control.

We dont take control because of superstition we are fed since childhood. One day it will change, just as one day all of sudden human dared the fire, and superstitious fear of fire. That day man conquered the world. Before that fire was death, that day fire became friend. Such is power of perception.
Take care to focus on reward which taking control of reptile brings. Reason being then reptile voluntarily becomes slave of reason brain. Its like asking dog that life in my house enclosure is better than life in forest. Once he is in, its done and both are happy now, else dog will be barking in the wild whenever u meet him.

Nonsense named Deepak Chopra

There is a similarity between Deepak Chopra and my master thesis work until now, and all the excuses for failures which I had luxury to delude myself with, we both talk things which are nonsense which even we don't understand, knowingly. What reason can do in one hour,  emotional  illusion cant do in a century, history is proof.
Emotions and good feelings, values etc can be highly dangerous sometime if they are not rationally checked. In a way one cant understand without being rational so we die in illusion most of the time.